Here are some books that I have found to be useful in my professional and personal life. I often recommend these to my clients.
it didn’t start with you by mark wolynn
adult children of alcoholics by Janet geringer woititz
Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel F. Heller
The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls
Boundaries by dr. Henry cloud & dr. john Townsend
Girl: Love, sex, romance and being you by Karen Rayne
The Seven Principles for making marriage work by John Gottman
setting limits with your strong-willed child by Robert J. Mackenzie
The state of Affairs: rethinking infidelity by Esther Perel